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The Motherance Clarity Call

A 30-minute private session to reveal what’s really driving the fracture between you and your teen or adult child.

Take the first step in understanding the unseen dynamics

shaping your relationship.

Hi! I'm Rita - founder of The Motherance Program. I'm here because I know what it feels like to do

everything 'right' as a mother — and still feel your child pulling away.

 

For years, I tried to hold everything together with love, logic, and effort. But beneath it all

was an invisible tension — the pressure to prove I was a good mom by getting everything right.

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Everything changed when I realised that the constant friction around attitude, respect,

accountability and care wasn't really because my children had a bad attitude or were 'entitled'. 

It was because deep down, I needed from them something I could only give myself — unconditional

acceptance, love and care. Until I learned to offer that to myself, my children couldn't experience the

kindest, most grounded version of me.

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Building on my background in Early Childhood Development, I learned that our children don’t co-regulate through our words — they attune to our energy. When we live through patterns of self-criticism or control, our bodies transmit tension, no matter how calm our tone sounds. But when we learn to meet our own discomfort with compassion, our entire frequency shifts and the connection naturally returns.

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This is the essence of Motherance: The practice of nurturing oneself with the same devotion once given to others. Rooted in self-awareness, guided by lived wisdom and carried out as an intentional legacy for future generations. It's not self-indulgence, it's having the courage to stand firm in our inner wisdom, as role models to our children.

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Now I use Human Design - a science-backed system of self-awareness and personal growth, to guide women on their own Motherance journey and rediscover the deep joy and loving connection of being a Mom.

 

Because before our children hear what we say — they feel who we are.

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Child Development Professional
& Life Coach

This session is for you if

  • The connection with your child feels strained — every conversation turns tense, distant, or defensive.

  • You’ve tried everything — listening, advising, backing off — but nothing seems to get through.

  • You’re stuck in loops of conflict or walking on eggshells, unsure what will set them off next.

  • You’re torn between wanting to help and not wanting to push them further away.

  • You feel a mixture of exhaustion, guilt, love, anger, confusion and - deep down - you're wondering, "Did I fail?"​

  • Your child is in Next Gen Drift - stuck, anxious or struggling with life in today's noisy world.

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If this sounds like you, Motherance is where things change for good.

This is deeper than adopting a positive mindset or trying new parenting strategies.

It's something you've never tried before: relationship physics.

What happens in The Motherance Clarity Call?

This is a structured, research-informed relationship assessment designed to uncover the energetic and emotional roots of conflict and disconnection.

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During our 30 minutes together, I’ll guide you through a short series of questions that measure your current level of connection, safety, and emotional balance — both within yourself and in your relationship with your child.

 

Each question is designed to reveal where the real fracture lies.​

You’ll rate each area on a simple scale of 1–10  and together, we’ll map your connection blueprint.

 

You’ll walk away with:

🌿 A brand new perspective on your current relationship dynamics.
🌿 Insight into what’s really driving the tension beneath the surface.
🌿 A clear next step if you want to explore deeper work through the Motherance™ Program.

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You don’t need your child in the room to heal the relationship.

You can restore a loving connection with your child yourself by repairing the fracture at

its source — your frequency.

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